This guy and I have been talking for 2 weeks on the phone for hours at a time over long distance. He told me he had a huge crush on me when we were younger, and I didn't give him the time of day until a couple weeks ago. At first, he was really into texting me and calling me. Now, he doesn't call or text very often...but whenever we talk he lets it be known that he really likes me and is possibly interested in dating when he moves to the same state I live in (at the end of this month). On the phone, we talk about life, work, spirituality, sex, music, sports, and everything in between; yet, he seems a little distant. Can someone help me understand what is going on with this guy?
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Hmm, I'm not him, so I really can't say what's going on haha. I'd like to say that he is busy or preoccupied and doesn't have time to communicate lately, but if he has time for Facebook, it kinda nullifies that argument.
Is there anything you are leaving out? I mean, it seems odd that he'd start playing "hard to get" suddenly. Waiting for his next move isn't a bad idea. If you don't receive anything back from him after a few days I'd text "hey bud, you still haven't called me back :P." After that point, it sounds desperate if you keep contacting him, and there really isn't much else you can do. I know it's not what you want to hear and it's incredibly frustrating (I'm in a similar situation :S), but you have to look at your long-term pursuit, and waiting is probably the best thing.