I am in the process of losing a significant amount of weight. Last time I lost a decent amount the guys that didn't want me before wanted me. But this time around I am not going to let guys that didn't want me before have a chance. It may sound stupid, but to me I will still be the same person, only the outside changed. And if they only want me for the outside why would I want that anyway?
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nah, that doesn't mean they didn't like who you were on the inside. Guys were probably just less likely to approach you. Attraction is important in a relationship, and so is physical attraction.
You can get the same story with some 300 pound guy, who loses a Ton of weight and all of a sudden, he's got more women giving him attention. That's a good thing. I mean if your taking care of your body, guys will approach you, then it comes down to personality.
-_- look its all good if a girl is banging, but if she is a complete self absorbed twit, I will stay away. Some would hit it and quit it, but that can make things very complicated0