I like this guy and we've been intimate a few times. I feel like he was only using me for sex and hookups after 10pm this has been going on for 5 years and nothing is changing. What's sad is I still have feelings for this guy and get upset thinking about this situation because I've been rejected before by guys and they have gone off to find gfs and some even get married. It hurts so much realizing I can't be with this guy because the same thing will happen with him, and he'll go off and find another girl and will date her. He did once tell me he loves me, that was a first. I feel as though he meant it but not long after we stopped talking and drifted apart from eachother. We're still friends on Facebook but I know nothing will ever happen, just like with every other guy.
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I had that situation before and it sucks. There's chemistry sparks fly etc etc, but the blunt honest truth is: "if he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you". When he said "I love you" when did he say it? Was it just after or during sex? Because to be blunt again that usually means "I love having sex with you" and not "I love you". Maybe try being honest and direct with your feelings. Maybe he thinks you feel the same way about him, if it's never talked about or discussed no one will ever know. Is he aware that you want more from the relationship?0