My boyfriend tells me he likes.. Im a good girl.. But when he told me he doesn't feel love yet.. We hve bn dating almost 8 months.. he's not romantic but gives me his time.. As time is precious... He says girls are after him but.. He says no.. My guy friend looked him and said im a guy n i dont think any girl hits on me n boots his major ego.. He tells me if i great big assets he will woeship me n love me like no tmrw but then he gets all mad n jealius it seems wen i post pics of my guy friend n asks n inquires a lot about my being.. If says he only likes me.. Whats with the jealousy n insecurity n big talk.. Does not mke sense..
Guys, is my boyfriend bipolar?
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Ok, I had a little trouble reading it, but I think I got the majority at least so I will try to explain.
Especially "My guy friend looked him and said im a guy n i dont think any girl hits on me n boots his major ego." I am interpreting this sentence as "My guy friend looked at him and said "I'm a guy and I don't think any girls are hitting on me" and boosted his [your boyfriend's] major ego. If I misunderstood something, just make a comment and I can fix it.
He seems like he has an incredibly possessive type personality. He basically wants you all to himself even if he doesn't necessarily love you yet. I don't know how you feel about him, but I would tread cautiously at the very least if you love him. Some boyfriends with this can take a step worse and turn emotionally abusive with jealous anger. People with this type of personality see every guy as a threat trying to steal his woman away.
I'd also be worried that he is just lusting. If I read this right, you said "He tells me if I [have] great big assets [<-- probably referring to womanly parts] he will worship me and love me like there is no tomorrow." This sounds like he just wants a physical relationship because he is having trouble getting emotionally invested.
TL;DR; So basically, he is incredibly possessive. I don't think he is bipolar. I would be careful to make sure he doesn't get unreasonable in his demands over you.1
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