i can't deal with it anymore, i am softspoken, nice, but everytime i go to work somewhere women say mean things or always make comments about me/my ethnicity etc. At school at work etc... im tired of it. I can't deal with it anymore.
This is not attention seeking, i never had a boyfriend by the way because guys dont approach me that often. The guy that i wanted to talk to, didn't wanted me. I feel like... i dont know like i just... no guy ever puts effort in getting to know me. They just kinda let me go and going after a guy never results in anything except forced interaction.
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I think you are attractive from what I can see, perhaps you seem unapproachable, and it may also be the influence of other women you were talking about, though getting romance in a workplace isn't easy to begin with, trying other places perhaps a dating site might be better. That being said there are a few things to address that I saw you voice and some of the things others here have voiced.
You talked about how no guys put the effort into getting to know you, this is a two way street you both need to get to know each other after all, most importantly you need to be interested in getting to know each other. You may need to do a bit of research on guys you want to get to know, that way you can find what might interest them in your direction and leave them opportunities to get to know you as well. Sometimes you need to go on the attack as they say.
I realize you said that doesn't work in anything but forced interaction, while it true that might be the case, it is also true that you need to get a guys attention first if they aren't paying attention otherwise nothing will happen.
If I knew more about you personally I could probably help a bit more atm this is all i can say from what I inferred while reading.0