I really like this guy who's in my class. He has showed clear signs of interest for the past semester but hasn't done anything 'concrete' such as ask me out. We have each other's numbers and text occasionally. One of his good friends is also in our class, and he clearly sees what's going on between us. He has set us up a few days ago to "study". I made an opinion after seeing what my crush was doing and saying to me during this hour of "study". So today, I asked his friend if he liked me. He seemed like he was pretending that he didn't know anything (while he had set us up me and my crush many times, and he totally ships us), but I think that he was 'jubilating' inside cause I had finally admitted that I liked his friend. Then he asked me if I liked him and I said "Oh yea, I do. But I want to make sure if he's just flirting for fun or if he actually likes me". Then he said (I quote) "well, he doesn't really know what he wants right now, he's just testing the waters. He seemes to like you a lot though, but I don't know what he's intentions are". He also asked me if I wanted him to try talking to my crush so he would do something according to what he felt. I answered 'Yes' as well. I'm happy that I took this initiative, but I'm worried anyways. I'm looking for a relationship, and I'm afraid that he would just want to play around. I know that we need time to get to know each other and stuff and that it is too early to make any long-lasting future plan whatsoever. What do you guys think?
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The quote" doesn't really know, just testing the waters" is more than likely a front. If their friends they have more than likely talked about it extensively. Its almost a 100% chance he's fully into you1