- Looks over personalityVote A
- Personality over looksVote B
- OtherVote C
Personality , though i have yet to have a partner , i would imagine if she's a good person , then i do not want any thing else from her in my life :)
It's looks first, then what kind of person she is. A gorgeous girl can blow it by being a bitch, an average girl can win your affection by being an awesome person. I think they're both equally important, I can't date someone I'm not attracted to physically or mentally. People saying personality is MORE important is usually a dishonest crock of shit.
Looks pique my interest, personality keeps me around.
Looks are good, but it's just the wrapper. The present is inside, and that's what I look for in people. You could be the cutest person on the planet, but if you've got no personality, that'd be a deal breaker. Guaranteed. At least for me, anyway.
I voted B.
And to answer your question with a more detailed answer, I look for in my better half, an obsession that goes both ways. Us both, being obsessed with each other and this tender obsession would be renewed each day.
I'm obsessed with redheads, so I guess looks over personality. But it's just that one thing that I look for: pale skin and red hair.
I do look for personality though: I like a woman I can trust, someone who is intelligent, a woman who is somewhat educated (intelligent doesn't mean educated, but I want both). I also want a woman who isn't super talkative.
Looks and personality are both important. In fact, they're both required.
Think about everything women like in men, and that's what I like in women. Except for the girthy penis.
Pragmatism. I can't stand people who are worthless regardless of their shining personality or stunning looks. You'd best be worth my time because neither a kind or pretty smile will matter when things get really rough.
Emotional stability, loyalty, someone who support me and be there for me through thick and thin.
Looks maturity temperament
You guys actually believe these girls when they
pick Personality over looks? LOL.
Honestly... the guy I like is not the MOST handsome or physically attractive guy, in fact I feel like he can sometimes disappear in a crowd. But I'm really attracted to his personality. He's got enough of the important things that make me overlook whats physical. After all, beauty fades, but whats inside won't.
As I aged I noticed looks went from being the first thing my friends and I described about a new man to a a complete second thought thst is rarely brought up. It took me awhile to notice how handsome my latest man is. This was never a conscious change either but a natural progression in maturity and prioritizing what is important in a partner.
Personality all the way!
The two things I look for in a partner is a great personality and a good heart.
I would say looks first attract me then personality... although some amazing guys I know are attractive based on their heart than just their looks. Besides tall and athletic, a kind and generous heart, a good sense of humor, and ambition.
Personality, smarts, funny, aggressive, yet shy sometimes, and protective are my main lookin outs. Looks are very far from my list
Personality over looks but both - of course.
Personality will always win. I'd be lying if looks didn't play a part in my choice. I have to be attracted to that person if we are going to be sharing a bed.
I'd say both are equally important. Can't be attracted to people I don't think look nice, but if they don't have a good personality that image kind of crumbles. :p
Looks then personality sometimes the other way around.
Both would be ideal.
I look for the full package
personality but self confidence is so attractive to me..
faithful, supportive, attraction, respectful, & fun. U have to be a pleasure to be around.
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