Not in a relationship yet but eventually will be after finishing HS next year. However, I'm leery of sharing this information to any guy I'll be going out on a date. The last thing I need is another creep that only values me for being a virgin and would treat other women differently instead of like a human. I'm not a gem nor some diamond to be obtained. I'm a human. Someone already tried and he looked so polite at first. Luckily I have both female and guy friends. I found out what he was early after a couple dates. He wasn't polite because that's his overall personality but only because of my status while not being the treating other girls the same.
I don't want to be overly wined nor courted just because of my virgin status while that guy would be the very same player using and talking bad about girls that have a past or he considers ''easy''. I think a real man doesn't talk smack about others (esp if he enjoyed sex with that woman) for bragging purpose nor uses others for commodities''.
I'm still disgusted that I even wasted my time with that one creep. I wanted to see if he was for real and open-minded (I wasn't exactly too convinced) and yes, my suspicions were right. He was a fake.
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U don't need to tell him this u only tell him when u trust him and know he's not just looking for sex. When the moment arrives with the first guy u want to sleep with then you tell him. He'll be overjoyed that you have saved yourself and he will have even more respect for u.0
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