Given that both of them have self-esteem issues, for you would it be better dating someone with:
a) Low self-esteem and low confidence issues, they don't love themselves too much
b) Inflated self-esteem and excessive confidence, they love themselves a lot
This is how inflated self-esteem (superiority complex) looks like:
- Low self-esteemVote A
- Inflated self-esteemVote B
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If your a guy, its better to have inflated self esteem, because girls call that "confidence" and he will get laid left and right.
But i would MUCH rather date a girl with low self esteem, than inflated self esteem. I absolutely CAN NOT STAND arrogant bitches. Nothing turns me off more quickly. If i was on a date with a girl who started acting arrogant, i would legit put down the money, get up, and leave in the middle of the date.
But i can handle someone with low self esteem, as long as they aren't super depressed or suicidal. If she has low self esteem, it just means that i have to try harder to make her feel happy and secure, and that i have to give her more love and care than a normal person-which I'm totally fine with.3