I met a guy from an online dating website yesterday for coffee. Prior to that, we had been texting for about a week but didn't talk on the phone. He got there a few mins early and already ordered his coffee. When I got there, I greeted him and went to the line to get my coffee. He followed me and stood besides me as I paid for my coffee. He didn't offer at all and he was the person who asked me to meet up. What do you make of this? Should it be a concern or should I go on a second date with him? I thought it was non-chivalrous of him to not even offer to pay on a first date. Other than that, he seemed fine and we talked for about 3 hours.
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You shouldn't go on a second date - for his sake. That you're willing to throw all this away before it even gets started, because he wouldn't buy a few dollars worth of coffee for you, suggests you're not really ready for an adult relationship.
There will be far tougher tests and decisions and situations ahead in your love life.1