there is this guy i been hanging out and talking to. he really likes me but he's not my type and i dont feel any connection or chemistry. im really not feeling it at all but he's a really nice guy and really likes me a lot. im still trying to get over my ex who i fell hard for and i really felt something with him. he was everything i wanted in a guy and i thought he was a nice guy and really liked me like he said he did but he turned out to be a jerk and was just using me. i want to date someone who is nice and actually likes me but i feel no connection or chemistry with the guy im talking to right now who really likes me. we have nothing in common but he's really nice and really likes me. what should i do?
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Don't date him yet! Since you're not over your ex, give yourself more time. I'm sure you got badly hurt after that jerk used you. Give yourself time to repair. Learn to trust people again. If I were you, I wouldn't rush things. If this guy really is as nice as you say he is, he would understand if you explained. Tell him "Sorry, but I can't date you now. I'm still trying to get over my last relationship that didn't end well. I hope you can understand." You know, connection and chemistry between people can be built up. Try to open up more to him and tell him about what's going through your mind. Only then will you start opening your heart. If you rush things now, the ones getting hurt will be the both of you. Good luck! :-)0