As being a black girl it's hard to be in relationships with white guys as there are many harsh stereotypes about black people which aren't all true, I know I have had people like me in the past but they deny they like me when I ask every time. I know most of the time it's due to , "I can't date her coz she's black" why? Why do you guys say that? Is there something wrong with us?
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my theory is that to most people white=beauty=feminine with black skin therefore being masculine. That's why I think some black guys are able to get white girls by being so bold and aggressive--it fits with the uber-masculine image stereotype while white girls who go for what they consider a beautiful male may never go fully black but maybe biracial.
black girls though have to be extremely beautiful in order to offset the stereotype that they are somehow more masculine than white girls.
if you want to test my theory ask a little more girly and make sure your "ass"ets are on fleek hahaha0