I can't seem to get a guy! I'm outgoing, friendly and talk to guys I'm interested in but they seem to run! I'm not needy or desperate, I'm happy being single, but I'd like to meet someone. I'm a size 10, take care of myself, dress nice etc... am I just undesirable? It's making me sad!
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Well, for some reason I can't see the picture of you everyone else seems to be referring to, but girls rarely take interest in me, which I attribute to one of three things. First, I'm kinda scrawny. Second, I don't go out of my way to meet them. And third, I'm a staunch and vocal conservative. There are some people everyone initially goes for and some who attract very little attention, like me or you. Personally, I think I'd rather be the latter, less people to sift through and those few people who like you are probably people you'll really like, too. Just what I've noticed. I'm cool with it. Kinda cynical anyway, plus I've got all the time in the world. You may not think so, but so do you. 35 is pretty young for anyone who isn't a pro athlete. Something that helps me on the rare occasion I feel bad about it is a song by Tom Waits called Better Off Without a Wife. Humorous and reminds you of the good parts about being single.0