Him and I have been hooking up for the last 5 months. We first slept together and then he asked me out on a date, and another. But after we just kept Thooking up because I was away at school, so only saw him once or twice a month. But then we just kind of stopped, because I refused to kiss him when we were out drinking about a month ago because I was starting to get feelings for him and I didn't want to get hurt. He got pretty mad and said something rude to me so I walked away, and he ended up leaving after too. Two weeks later he was supposed to go to a festival with his friend and his sister and her 2 friends. His sister is my best friend and I currently live with her. So I bought a ticket last minute. I accidentally read a convo between his friend and sister. His friend was saying that he was pissed I was coming. And she asked why and he was like why do you think and she just answered he needs to grow up. why was he pissed? by the way I read this convo like two days ago so I had no idea he was mad. And during the festival, which was a day camping one, he barely talked to me and pretty much ignored me, and I also ignores him. This other girl on the trip, her ng broke up with her day 2 while we were there, so she was all over him... And they were hanging out together the whole time. What's his deal uh. Can I get him back?
Anyways neither of us really said how we felt. And Just assumed we were hooking up and should have td him how I felt then instead of just turning his kiss down. I do still have feelings for him. Can I still fix it? I recently just started talking to him again, just casually. Because it's been awkward and we've both avoided each other.
what if I just went in and kissed him? We're all going out this weekend? Would he kiss be back or would he not be into it?
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I think an explanation to him would be very beneficial to between you two. Also an explanation to him could lead to an insight of how he feels/felt. You can always fix it, don't give up hope and just be completely honest with him. Honesty is the best policy. I wish i could sit here and tell you if he'll give you another chance but its just up to him and how he is as a person. I think he's gotten a break and cooled down but it seems like he doesn't know how to deal with himself when being hit with rejection. It was wrong of him ignoring you and hanging out with the other girl and does indeed, need to grow up. An explanation could potentially open the door for you two. Id give him an explanation because you'll never know what he'll do if you never explain :) But if he rejects you again, id just move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea. I wish the best for you, good luck!0