Tell him when he gets back. Don't go the cowardly way! Tell him upfront.
but it's more complicated, he knew I liked him, he also liked me, and we slept together once. but after he said he wanted to take things more serious, something happened and it was my mistake. I believe he has less feelings for me now, at least he is controlling, so I know it would be even harder.So I want him to know that I still so much like him as soon as possible..
Call him instead of a text? Also, I don't know if it's such a good idea. He's on vacation and he's having fun. Let him have his fun and then discuss it when he gets back. What you say could affect his vacation for the better or for the worst. Do you want to take the chance that you could be the one to ruin his trip? I know if I got a text like that from someone who I had a complicated relationship with (and trust me, I have a few of those right now) I would sort of be pissed. I'm trying to enjoy myself and get away from all the troubles I have back home. Getting a text from someone that I may like but things didn't work out would make me crazy because it would be the only thing on my mind after I received it and it may even cause me to want to rush the vacation because I want to hurry home to talk about it and then I miss the fun. I know you don't want to wait, but if you really care abut this guy, then let him have his vacation and have a serious chat with him when he gets back.
I didn't think that much, I thought most probably he would be happy..
That's what you have us here for! We are supposed to be giving out advice. :) All I'm saying is that he very well may be happy with your text or call or whatever you want to do, but it could also backfire on you. I usually try not to contact people while they are on vacation unless they contact me first. My best friend away on vacation during Spring Break and even though it was agonizing and torturous to not text him, I didn't want to be a bother so I let him be. He contacted me the day after he arrived at his location and that's why I started talking to him. Taking a vacation is usually about getting away from your troubles and just forgetting about everything else and living in the moment. No drama, just a clear mind. It's just something to think about while you decide whether or not to text him.
thanks for ur advise darling :)but he's not running away, he's not that type of people who run away and clear his mind. And also, we liked each other it was a long time ago, like 3 months ago or so..
Oh no, of course he's not running away. It's just some vacation time. He wants to enjoy it without all the distractions of life at home. That is not to say that they are bad distractions or anything. Like, when I vacation sometimes, I'm not going to get away from my stressful and hectic life. I'm just going because I want to have fun. Everyone just wants to relax when they're on vacation. I don't know one person that consciously chooses to think about home while on vacation. 3 months isn't that long. Now, if you said a year or later I could see the rush, but you'll have time to tell him when he gets back. I'm sure he'll appreciate it more if you do. :)Also, you're welcome for the advice. I enjoy giving it and hoping that helped someone. That's why I'm on this site. At first it was for my own personal questions, but as I came here more and more I wanted to give back to those who've helped me. :)
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Believe me text him and tell himHe will still enjoy his vacation and will also have something to look forward to when he comes backText him
actually we already slept together and he knows I like him, he also likes me, but well, something happened and it was my mistake. I believe he has less feelings for me now, at least he is controlling, so I know it would be even harder.So it's not as normal.. and not that simple.. I'm afraid it will bother him
It's up to you. If you're brave and actually have the guts to do it, sure, go for it. You never know what could happen, maybe he likes you too. Maybe you'll make his vacation even better by telling him that.
well, actually he knew I liked him, he also liked me, and we slept together once. but after he said he wanted to take things more serious, something happened and it was my mistake. I believe he has less feelings for me now, at least he is controlling, so I know it would be even harder.So it's not as normal.. and not that simple.. I'm afraid it will bother him
wait until he comes back?
not so good to send him a text, right?
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