So I would be talking to a guy an everything is cool. Somehow he senses I am grumpy it how my mood is from one day to the next. My ex who I met online will be like ignoring me at end of relationship he revealed I am too negative an he can't deal with me. He acted like he wanted to stay mates but we didn't an I was glad in the end as he wasn't for me.
I get told I am good looking often but I feel like personality is not amazing enough to keep a guy I attract guys like very quick an easily but hard to keep them around. I know some just want sex an are not the one for me but I do now question whether I got to work on things.
Not every guy I have met has said this though only 2 did but they wasn't great guys either so in some ways I believe they was just making a dig at me. Last guy I spoke to called me grumpy an would say you seem less grumpy today.
An would say oh you in a mood if I did short replied then when I over reacted with something he totally ignored me from Monday of this week an hadn't responded since. Typical coward an it's fine if I drove him away but it is rude in my opinion. He also said last week I am hard work. an my sister said today that I am hardwork when we wasn't even discussing guys but she said it so when the closest person thinks it it does make me wonder.
nobody perfect but I want to keep a guy not push him away. I am sensitive an take things to heart too much working on that. As a girl hard not to overanalyse but I don't want to over react.
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I know guys don't like when a woman nag or when are always down because that makes a man down. If you are down about something then discuss it with your man and that will open the door of communicating. This will let him know what going on with you and don't complain about it too much when talking to the guy about it.0