How do I get my boyfriend to spank me?

I want him to spank me and I feel like he would also like to do it but I'm not sure how to ask because I don't want to just come out and say spank me or something like that. I want it to be a subtle type of thing.

Updates:
Well considering we aren't having sex a lot of those ideas won't work

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Most Helpful Guy

  • If i were you i would not be subtle but don't say a word. Girls don't like to admit they have desires ESPECIALLY if the guy might think its weird or laugh at her etc. Girls are social and emotional, there not going to handle that well. there's a part in the movie called the secretary where she is hanging out with i think his name was peter, she just says fuck it, and places herself across his lap and basically says don't be scared.

    Well ole' peter wasn't up to the task so needless to say it didn't work out between the two. If its the kind of guy you want, then force him to make a choice, its really simple actually, next time he is sitting in a chair, just get over his lap, doesn't get any more obvious then that. Sounds difficult i know, but at least you will find out if he is up to the task, truth be told- im a guy that does it to girls all the time, these other guys can pull the "just be a naughty girl" routine all they want, but i can promise you not every girl is in it for "arousal" not every girl is in it to be in a dom/sub relationship, and not every girl on the planet is the same, some literally want it old school, they screw up, they see getting spanked as a way too "correct it" etc. there ALL different.

    Find out why you want him to do it, then force him into a position to be able to do it. If he doesn't (i mean ya he will be a little freaked out, thats normal the first time) if he decides to do it, he will start out "playfully" (you should already know in your mind how "far" he can take it and be prepared to defend it if he tries to go full dexter)

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What Guys Said 11

  • Doesn't matter if you want to just come out and say it.

    Best way to ask is to just ask.

    You could do the whole "I've been a naughty girl" bit but he could still not catch on which could spoil the mood for you both.

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  • Forget subtle. If you want that from him, tell him. Don't make him try to read your mind.

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    • The question is closed so I wanted to jump in here: Sit down with him, away from the sex, and ask him to swap sexual fantasies with you. You can start by telling him one of your favorites is getting a hot bare bottom spanking--that it turns you on big time to think about it.

      Do you want to kick and mock struggle and tell him no and stop? If so, you'll need a safe word. If you want to know more about that, message me and reference this question.

  • Be a bad girl.. Tell him are you gonna spank me for being a bad girl 👍🏻

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  • Be a bit cheeky in a loving way, then bend over for your punishment! Seriously!! Then you can tell him how good it was!!

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  • You should just ask him. It won't be weird. Guys like it when our girlfriends want to experiment.

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  • Tell him to rub your ass and then ask him to smack it

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  • You could try slapping him on the ass which might prompt him to do it back to you.

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  • Your relationship is going to fail

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  • say ow yea spank me

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  • Drop a provocative hint of two and maybe he'll get it, if not it never hurts to ask

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  • If you have sex, get into a doggystyle position with him. It's more open for him this way. Once he gets rougher, and assuming you can keep your cool, try to passingly mention a want, no, need to be spanked. He'll probably follow that, no questions asked. If not, keep trying until he loses it. Have fun with a red behind lol.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Wait until you're in bed and on all fours, then wiggle your bum at him extremely provocatively until he gets the hint, if he doesn't then I suppose you'll just have to tell him... with words... :/

    If you say it in the heat of the moment it may feel less awkward...

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  • Just b a naughty girl ;) Jk ask it of him in the middle of sex

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