I've never had a girlfriend, and ultimately my dreams mostly consist of having one, sharing my life with a girl, cuddling and kissing her. Believe it or not, humans need each other, the average person needs someone other than itself to share his happiness with. I think I'm missing a fundamental part of life, and my dreams are trying to numb this. I'm happy by myself, I enjoy my company and having alone time for my hobbies, but I feel immensely empty at the same time. I don't want to end up alone, I want to share my happiness with someone else. I don't know what to do, my life is slowly becoming uninteresting, the things I used to enjoy are slowly becoming dull and boring. I feel like, if I had someone to share my life with, this would ALL disappear and I would be happy again.
But in real life things never go my way... I'm starting to think that I'm destined to die alone while never been loved deeply by anyone. Should I give up on my quest to find someone, since it's pretty clear that I was not made to be loved?
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First, how old are you? I quess not older than 30. You shouldn't be worrying about this, right person will come to you :) . Even if you think you are not handsome and have low self esteem somewhere is the person who will love you the way you are. But of course to find a girl you should always try to do your best, be more brave if you see that the girl is interested. I think this is the biggest mistake of good guys, who wait when the girl will make the first step.
Change smthg about your self. And be more brave with girls. If that won't help it means it is not smthg wrong with you, it means are in wrong place looking ;)0