Girls always say "We want him to work for us" even though they hate desperate guys or guys who try too hard. It doesn't make any sense.
To me it's all about social skills in knowing how to respond when a girl flirts with other guys or ignores me.
I will never play the game because I simply don't know how it works. And if I'm dying alone because I lack game, so be it!
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I think what really needs to happen is that people should be allowed to genuinely show interest without automatically being deemed desperate or people thinking there must be something wrong with them.
That's what I think should get banned :) Then there wouldn't be a need to play hard to get.1