My friend texted me that we should to go to a movie, play minigolf, or get some dinner sometime. She's a good friend, but we've only hung out with other friends at the same time before. Is this a date? From a woman's standpoint, would you ask a guy out by himself if you were only friends?
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i hang out with my guy friends alone all the time but that's when they know that we re just friends and nothing is ever going to happen so that makes us close friends.
but if I hang out with one dude alone and I don't normally go out with him alone I would consider it as a date like, only because I wouldn't ask him if its a date or not so I would play it safe in between ( date and just friends hanging out )... untill I can see where its going or what the hints are telling me.
But since she suggested a movie and a dinner I would say its probably a date cause usually Just Friends wouldn't PLAN where they re going or at least they would go out and do goofy things, it doesn't have to be "Planned"
Go out with her and try to pay attention for those little hints and signals she's sending, if she's smiling a lot for example, if she's talking about personal things, like a one on one conversation, if she's playing with her hair a lot ( yeah gurls do that when they like a guy) or perhaps she's going to be more dressed up than usuall, that means she's into you and that its probably a Date!2