I really like this guy. We've been kinda-sorta dating for the past several months on and off but our schedules have always been conflicting and other things have prevented us from seeing each other continuously. So basically we recently started talking/hanging out again, and I really enjoy spending time with him. We are finally at a point where our schedules allow us to see each other more.
Anyway... I've been texting him pretty often lately, and try to let him know that I'm into him by sending smiley faces a lot in my text messages and telling him I really like spending time with him and would like to see him more often, etc.
His answers are kind of short and curt and he usually takes a long time to reply, or when I suggest we hangout he will say no because he is tired from work or whatever, and he has even flaked a couple times which makes me think that he doesn't feel the same way. Should I stop giving him chances and move on? I like him a lot, but if he continues this behavior, then I won't bother wasting my time and energy on him anymore.
I don't get guys. Apparently they like you more when you pretend not to like them? Where's the logic in that. Anyway, I'm debating whether or not to reply and give him another chance. I really want to see him, but part of me feels like I shouldn't. I don't know what to do.
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Just ask him. Tell him he seems disinterested in spending time with you. If he does like you hell try to get that idea out of your head immediately and prove otherwise. If he brushes it off or takes nonchalantly then he doesn't care much.1