My girlfriend is gorgeous sweet and loyal. But sometimes i am not sure about the way she dresses.
Sometimes she wears either tight low rise jeans or jean shorts. She wears a short short to the point you can see her bellybutton, and she wears leather jackets and jeans a lot. She has a nice body and probably wants to show it off but i don't know how i feel about it. No because i think she is trying to get other guys to see her but because other guys might get the wrong idea. I don't want to be controling but i wonder if i shoud communicate my feeling about this to her.
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yes? she's allowed to wear what she wants. she obviously likes how it looks on her and it boosts her own confidence. she shouldn't be inhibited with what she wears just because you are insecure and worried what other guys might thjink of her. im guessing this is also how she dressed before you two started dating? why should she change? you knew what you were signing up for when you started dating her, and a women's fashion choices- surprise surprise- are not centrally geared towards attracting the desired sex, be it male or female. More often they are based on what makes her feel comfortable and confident.
And look, if you two are really meant to be, then it shouldn't be a problem what she wears. if anything, it can only help you, so when you two go out and guys go "damn! she's gorgeous!" you can go "yeah! and she's MY girlfriend ;)"1