I've always thought that myself, that if a guy really liked you and wanted to date you as much as he claimed he did. He would just make it happen, whether there were obstacles or not. He'd try to find a way to make it happen. Then the other night I watched the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" (which I believe is based off a book), anyway in that movie one of the guys said that same exact thing "If a guy really wants to date you, he'll make it happen. It's just that simple". Now, I'm wondering if I've been right along. I think a lot and so I've been thinking about this for many reasons.
Do you think that statement is true, why or why not?
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False. First of all we are not mind readers, the fact that you are interested, or even that you dont have a boyfriend, might not cross our minds, or we mightbe misinformed by someone.
Also, what if there is more than one girl a guy really wants to date? When deciding, if he knows another girls is really into him that will tip the scales extremely in her favor!
The guy may also be either shy or down on himself or preoccupied. All of these will stop him from making a move, even if je really wants to.
Please do not take any more love advice from movies like that. They are designed to be sad, and on personal note, it sounds like it was written by a woman, who is clueless about what men really want!2
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