I have liked her for a year now, during this time she has dated my cousin she has broken up with him because he was to boring I do not want to appear to her boring as well.I feel it may be awkward for us if I were to ask her out.she very rarely texts me back and when I reply she stops texting.is this to keep me interested? She does enjoy talking to me in class but I don't no whether to call her or to send her a flirty text message. I also want to know how she feels about me so I no whether to ask her out? Also is she interested in me when she asks if I like anyone when I like her? Does she know if I like her would she tell me? I asked if she wanted a lift home once and she said OK which was good until two days later when I asked if she wanted a ride home and she came up with a lame excuse. Also her favorite meal at bk is the same as mine I asked her if she wanted to go but she said she didn't feel like it. I would have stopped trying to think of ways to ask her out by now but I can't get her out of my head.PLEASE HELP!
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If I were you I would stop trying of ways to indirectly asking her out and just go for it. "Hey ____, Would you like to go on a date with me some time?" Even replacing the 'some time' with a 'friday' could make it seem realer to her. Being indirect may've been what made your cousin boring to her. I think you should actually walk up to her and ask, I know I dislike being flirted with in text when nothing is going on it real life. From what you have said it does seem like she likes you; most girls will ask the guys they like if the like anyone... its like reconnaissance 'cause you sound like an interested friend when your really finding out your competition. I don't know about the ride thing, but I sometimes get uncomfortable taking multiple rides with people I'm not sure I'm going to be in a lasting relationship with, and that includes friends. You don't want to have to rely on a ride from some guy who may not like you a week from now. Hope I helped.0