At the first opportunity when I am alone at a new boyfriends house for like the first time, I will look under a sink, I will look through a bathroom, comb through a drawer, look under the bed, flip through the mail (not open it, geeze, I have standards), but I just like to know more about them that maybe they aren't telling me. I'm not opening up their social media, or trying to find social security numbers, or going through their cell phones... I don't want to know that deep, but its kind of like I'm on a curiosity mission... like oh, looks like he reads GQ and eats Cheerios, and writes his mom. I don't bring it up ever, but I just look for my own personal knowledge. How bad is this?
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Good to know!! I hide my 'Naughty' things (videos and magazines) in a place you don't look! If I KNEW, I would purposely put really messed-up, crazy porn sht so you could find it, and I would spank you for snooping and not trusting and respecting MY PRIVACY, in MY HOME!! Shame on you for doing that, even though I know why!!
Just ask him what you want to know, and respect his privacy! Maybe he has naked baby bath pictures he doesn't want you to see!!
Getting to know someone is about asking them questions, sharing things, and most of what you mentioned, Cheerios, and GQ, you could easily learn, just asking him!
How would you feel if he went through your panty drawer, and found your 'naughty' things, or the 'period' panties, the 'granny-type', and maybe your vibrator, or VIBRATORS!!0