Well me and this guy have been talking for a couple months. Things started off great and he really liked me. He has a newborn daughter and he told me he wanted to take things slow, but I guess at the time I didn't understand. Things got kind of rough, and well, since then we've been about sex and I had a problem with that.
I I was guilty of "texting terrorism" and I blew up his phone. He told me he gets really frustrated when I blow up his phone and he wanted to stop talking to me because of my drama. I have to admit, work has been extremely stressful and I've taken it out on our relationship. I asked him for a 2nd chance so he could see that I'm not usually like this and he said he'd think about it. I don't want to lose him because he makes me happy. He said he wants to focus on school and his daughter and I continued to agree with him, saying I understand and that I'm committed to med school and work, and that I don't want a relationship but I want him. I love him.
How can I fix what I did? I'm a pretty attractive girl and I'm a good person. Would the no contact rule help? How can I get him to be crazy about me again?
Most Helpful Guy
Play it slow like he wants. If your relationship is currently just about sex but you want more, just be patient. Maybe casually hooking up here and there might prevent you from losing him.
I didn't understand the blow up phone part but I'm assuming it means you text him a lot. If that's the case minimalise how much you text and call him.
Kind of stay quiet but remind him that you're there once in a while.
Try not to take out stress on others, I know sometimes you don't realize it happens but it can be very hurtful.
Do you actually want a relationship?0
Most Helpful Girl
Just give him some time. A similar thing happened to me recently. I got clingy on a guy, he lost interesnt and I backed away for like 2 months. Then I invited him out one night and since then he has been back in my life and very different (in a good way!). I showed hom I'm less clingy by giving him tons of space and then when he came back I try and avoid making the same mistakes.0