I met this amazing girl two months ago and we just clicked with each other. We started talking and hanging out with friends a lot more. And usually when we talk to each other, we stare deep into each others eyes. We also like being close to each other. But recently she's become more and more quiet and nervous around me. Whenever I'm around her and her friends she gets excited and shows off, but when I talk to her alone, she stares at her phone and her voice gets quiet and shaky. Any advice on how to get her to be more comfortable around me would be appreciated.
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Make the topics light. Ask the girl's friends her interest or if you know them already talk about it more esp if you have similar experience about something (like a place both of you had visited can be a start, not necessarily you went together) or you can also ask her suggestion about something and exchange ideas. Make her laugh more importantly, also smile often in your part. Smile alone makes the mood lighter.
I had experienced that before when suddenly we were both left alone and it started to be awkward. He initiated to talk to me then i found out that we have some common interests. After some time, we got along really well.0