I was told by my boyfriend's mother that he was in jail for 3 years on armed robbery chargers that involved an elderly man.. I am completely horrified that I have dated this man 2 years without my boyfriend telling me this and that someone would rob an old man.. I feel like I don't even know the man I love anymore... and I'm contemplating if I even want to be with him anymore? Should I give him another chance? Do I tell him I know?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes tell him you know. I'm dating a woman in prison for murder. Before you jump to conclusions it was an accidental death not planned. She gets out September next year. Her mother in law babysitter her three kids. She went to get them and the mia wouldn't let her have them. She went to the authorities who said it was a civil matter and no help. She went back and tried bullying her was in and the mia stabbed her. She went and got friends and the plan was to knock the mia out with an ether soaked rag. It didn't work so they tied her to a chair and stuffed the rag in her mouth. My girlfriend then came in and got her kids. They stuffed the rag too far and the mia asphyxiated. I've verified all of it. In your case that's a sign of violence and its up to you if you want to give him a chance. I can't fault my girlfriend because a desperate mother will do desperate things when it comes to her kids. She made a plea of guilty for murder in exchange for a flat 25. If it went to trial it would've probably been manslaughter but got more time. After telling him you know that'll open things up to discuss the situation. If he's presently doing good he could've learned his lesson. Good luck0
Most Helpful Girl
Under what context did his mother tell you? Why did she wait two years? The only reason I can think of is that she was somehow looking out for you which is telling. Otherwise I would consider it an interference on her part. Was he young when he did this? Using drugs? People make mistakes and can sometimes be desperate but picking on an elderly person seems to show an especially disconcerting lack of conscience. Would you be comfortable sharing this infor with your future children? My mother taught me something that has always rang true from experience... People who are capable of doing something to someone else, are just as capable of doing it to you. Also, why didn't he tell you? Every relationship I've heard of with similar circumstances, the guy told right away to get it out of the way. I don't know, how can you really trust him now? I'm sorry you're going through this. You must be pretty upset. Hang in there and always put your safety first.0