You can google an endless amount of experiments and anecdotes that prove the notion that not just men, but women go for looks online, yet the silly "how tos" that are supposed to instruct average men on how to "succeed" in online dating never seem to die. Sometimes there is even hostility when you challenge the idea that men's chances with online dating can be changed much with anything but good pics. Why can't people accept reality? Is it just that they can't handle the truth of their sexual market value?
Any guy that doubts this could set up a fake tinder or other profile with an unknown male model pic and compare the responses to what their real pics get. But they won't do this.
- They simply can't handle the truth due to individual weaknessVote A
- It's deep seated human psychologyVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Well, I wasn't interested in my ex because of his looks. I was into to him because he was extremely polite, passionate, and intelligent. He wasn't super attractive but he was very good with his words.
If you're just looking for sex then yeah dating sites are all about looks but if you're actually looking for a relationship women won't be as focused on looks.0
Most Helpful Guy
" Is it just that they can't handle the truth of their sexual market value?" That's #exactly the problem since everyone wants to feel wanted by somebody, right? Which is why they'll never come to terms with the reality of this situation (online dating in this case).
"Any guy that doubts this could set up a fake tinder or other profile with an unknown male model pic and compare the responses to what their real pics get. But they won't do this" #Agreed but in my case I could just use my own #face and have a bunch of thirsty girls inboxing me and as long as I didn't say anything that was blatantly disrespectful to them they'd put up with it just hoping yo go out with me LOL.