Girls, if you are into looks, why should I approach girls anyway?

If girls are attracted to looks and confidence and many factors what is the motive to approach them and meet them? i want to have a girlfriend. and they require lots of things from a guy. what is the reason to have a girlfriend if they want hotter or their level in hottness partner? if even girls get attracted without confidence, why should i approach them anyway? or have a girlfriend who won't be any hotter then i am?


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  • you won't know unless you try to get to know them. don't assume for all. simply make a lot of friends with the opposite gender, and one is bound to be interested in your personality. its not that hard to be confident. love yourself and think you're an awesome guy with a lot to offer. work out, eat healthy, don't drink or smoke, and just dress neatly and nice. once you start to do that, you'll look and feel better because you're valuing and showering yourself with love by taking care of yourself... you'll be fine. its that simple.

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  • " if even girls get attracted without confidence, why should i approach them anyway? or have a girlfriend who won't be any hotter then i am?"

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    Why do you think you deserve a girl out of your league. Date girls on your level.

    Also many girls find shyness endearing and cute just approach them. You have nothing to lose.

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    • nope. i have no motive to approach girls who i do not like. i only approach hot ones. i prefer hot girls rejection over unattractive girl's approval!!!

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    • How about a 6/10.

    • listen, girl. i need motivation to go out and approach. if i do not have higher expectation what to expect?

  • Go for girls who are on YOUR level of attractiveness, or less attractive than you then... if you really want a girlfriend that bad. You have to be realistic.

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    • i do not want a girlfriend than according to your suggestion

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    • with a pr=leasure

  • You can foster confidence by setting goals and meeting them, and by focusing on the things you like about yourself, changing the things you don't that you can change, and accepting the things that you can't change as part of who you are. You don't have to be super hot to be confident.

    As for why to bother approaching if you're not super hot? Just be realistic! Approach women who are, for a lack of a better term, in your league. A lot of guys seem to think that only pretty girls count, and that's stupid. Of course you're going to get shot down if the only women you try to approach are way out of your league..

    Looks only matter as far as the initial attraction goes. You just need to be attractive "enough" to the individual woman you're approaching to be able to then make yourself attractive by being kind and genuine and interesting.

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    • if i won't attract hottest girl approaching is not for me. also hot girls' rejection is far more better than sex with non hot girls.

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    • thank you a lot. you girls do not care what guys want i think. buy and thanks for your opinion.

  • Your problem is that you just want a girlfriend who is "good enough" in the sense that you found them sufficiently attractive, but considering how you just want to fill the void in your life rather than actually choose a girl and make them feel wanted for their person, for who they are. With your current views, you are looking for just a female walking sex object to go on dates with - a free escort. You don't care who she is, why should they care who you are?

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    • a sex object? nope. i have got romantic feelings when seeing a beautiful girl. if gir think the same way why you call guys like that?

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    • why you do not conciser what i want?

    • You don't understand the concept of seeing a woman as a person. This discussion has no end, so I will provide it. Cheers.

  • are you saying you're not hot

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