So recently she told me over the phone super excited she said "hey so I met this guy! He's so so sweet and blah blah blah we're dating online" so then I was like "oh that's great ! I'm so happy for you" she told me that they FaceTime , text 24/7, and they both engage in dirty chats with each other. But JUSY YESTERDAY I found out that he is 28 FREAKING YEARS OLD!! I told her that was NOT OKAY. But she says there's nothing wrong with it because he's not hurting her or touching her. She says he makes her happy. Should I
a) STAY OUY OF IT
b) continue to get her to understand this is not very normal
or am I wrong? Please help, I don't dot want her to get hurt
Most Helpful Guy
I honestly think you should get in touch with her parents or just tell her not to talk about it with you at all.
But I seriously suggest telling your parents or somehow getting in touch with her parents. Nothing good can come of this. If the guy doesn't have the decency to date an adult then he's clearly bad news.5
Most Helpful Girl
I've been friends with someone who was 32 when I was 14. Nothing ever happened sexually. I know someone who was 15 dating a 30 year old. They didn't have sex til she (the 15 year old) graduated high school.
As long as you tell her that if she and he ever had sex (underage sex) he will go to jail, it should be fine. Regardless of either of their feelings, it IS illegal. Tell her that if they truly love someone, they can wait for each other.
Hell, I'm 21 and have fooled around but I'm still a virgin so I cannot honestly say that their relationship is completely wrong...1