Just want to hear a bit more about this one. I'm a little worried it's happening to me right now. This guy I am seeing has a lot of money... so he keeps paying. Someone at work said he might be trying to buy my love. He's really sweet to me though, so I don't know? I offer to pay and he lets me sometimes.
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Well obviously it's bad to buy someone's love because that's not really true love. If he has the money for it and likes paying for your stuff, don't feel bad. And don't assume that he's just trying to buy you or your love. You should only be worried if he starts acting possessive, all like "hey!! I bought you THIS and THAT! Now you have to do this for me/act this way for me" etc. Like if he starts using the fact that he spends money on you against you, as if you owe him something for it. And you said that he lets you pay sometimes which is also a pretty good indicator of the fact that he's not trying to do anything other than be courteous.
If it really bothers you that much, just sit down with him and tell him that it makes you feel bad that he almost always pays for everything, and that you'd like it if he let you pay for stuff a bit more too.1