I've been in a relationship with this girl since a year.
During this year she cheated on me a several times but I still didn't choose to leave her. Today is her birthday I had planned a surprise for her which her ex ruined by calling her to her old college and throwing a party. Even I had planned a surprise party but she went for her ex's party.
Now I don't know know how to react but im tty otally pissed. We had planned a dinner tonight. But now I really don't feel like going for it. But I don't want to spoil her mood by telling her that im upset because she spent her afternoon with her ex and other friends. Because she didn't have an idea that they planned a party for her so I can't blame her completely but im hurt. Please help me out pals what should I do?
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When you love someone, everything becomes difficult and clouded making choices. I'm assuming you've talked about the cheating and worked it out where she also agreed to not do it again (if not you should have run a sentence ago). When she cheated, she broke your trust and now when she hangs out with her ex, you feel betrayed. This is completely normal. You are in a bad mood and it's very gentlemanly of you that you care about her. However, there is a saying I'd like to leave you with, "Stop swimming across oceans for people who won't jump a puddle with you." I'm not going to tell you to leave her, but you certainly deserve someone who will take your honesty and affection the way she has not.0