Guys have a hard time knowing how to act or even know what to say when they find out their lady is at that time of the month. So ignoring you is just a way of not taking on too much. The same goes for someone being sick. Guys aren't as nurturing as women (trying not to generalize) but try not to take it personal when a guy doesn't want to be around you when you're sick. This could be from his upbringing or just fear of also getting sick.
He knows he doesn't have a shot at getting laid those days so he doesn't put on the act. I would call him out on it. Unless he has some phobia of germs he should be there for you just like you are for him.
Have you told him this?
I'm sure if you told him that you would like him there for you he would most likely do it. Maybe he keeps his distance during your period because we can all get really moody and angry easily, and he doesn't wanna upset you.
Don't let him do that to you, try talking to him about it. He should be there for you just like you're there for him
i think being caring doesn't form part of his personality
Opinion
5Opinion
Sorry to hear about it. For some reason I (being a male) am kind of the same way; at least about the period thing. It's like for that week I know you (the female) are going to be temperamental, uncomfortable and just generally abrasive so I tend to disengage to avoid saying/doing something wrong. As for the ignoring you when your sick; that's kind of a shitty thing to do. When someone is sick I'll take care of them or whatever their needs are no questions asked. If he's ignoring you that's just kind of a douchebag thing to do. Not sure what you can do about it aside form talking to him and/or looking for someone who will treat you better.
huh... thats not a great sign,, i think you should just talk to him about it, i mean on ur period, for me I've been told to stay away from my friends, but seeing how u take care of him, thats just not right. i mean u can't expect him to skip work but still...,
best thing to do isadress ur concerns especially next time ur sick.
Maybe he's just not like that...
Are there things that he does for you and that you don't do for him?
Maybe he pays you back another way?
If you really want something from him, you should ask him though. Maybe he just didn't realize?
It’s because he’s selfish. Selfish people don’t care about the well-being of others. Stop doubting on him when he’s sick if he doesn’t give a shit about you when you are. In fact, I don’t even know why you’re his girlfriend. If he can’t take care of you during the hard times, then what good is he?
he should be bring over ice cream and cranberry juices. What will happen when you live together, "hey I'll be at a hotel for the week". Fix this or have sex on your period he'll stay in contact then.
You should introduce him to the world of period sex. Women are typically hornier then and also cures menstrual cramps and powerful orgasms. Period sex is the best sex ever.
Give him a blow job and he will love to cuddle with you when you're on your moon :)
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions