It honestly hurts to hear things like that. It feels like I'm less likely to find a guy who takes things slow, then we eventually date, and marry. My dreams feel a bit crushed. So far the majority of guys who approach me are exactly looking for just that to "hookup" or hangout. This is why I push most of them into the brozone to makeup excuses for not being into them like that.
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I am young and yes I see this all the time. There are quite a few women I find attractive but I would never date them because they are into whole hookup thing. It's very hard to find women like you tbh1