A guy led me on as he didn't tell me that he had a girlfriend. Eventually I found out as I threatened to stop contact with him if he didn't tell me what was going on.
He gave in and told me about her, but he continued texting me etc. He was very suggestive and even showed me his *d...* on Skype etc.
I suppose he wanted kind of a online "fling" as he avoided seeing me physically. Well I told him that I was not going to help him cheat. He was ready to cheat as he often said that we have to keep it a secret if we meet up.
I found out the name of his girlfriend. I actualy thought that they were going to break up and kept the contact alive. Nevertheless, I have realized that he is making a fool of me (e. g. telling me that we have to meet up etc., but then bailing...). Beforehand I stated clearly that I am not going to continue with this texting as it is not leading anywhere... he agreed and promised that it would get better and such shit. he went MIA after our last texting session and is behaving weird...
Since he was rude to me, I am thinking about telling her.. should I tell her?
I don't care if he is angry at me at all after that
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I recommend that you do it. Make sure that you have screenshots of what he's done, rather than just messaging his girlfriend 'your boyfriend's cheating on you' because that's just going to make her not believe you. Give her absolute proof, and prove that you thought they were breaking up too.
If you think about it if you were in her position - would you want someone to tell you if your boyfriend was cheating? I know that I would rather know than be made a fool of. Besides, he's obviously not invested in the relationship with her if he's showing people his dick online.
But make sure that you're not just doing it because he was rude to you. You should do it to help his girlfriend see what kind of guy she's with, not because you've been spurned.1
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