So I have a date next week with this girl from my class. The thing is she's rather shy/introverted and a bit stand offish. She's a real bookworm and focuses more on school rather than socializing and going to parties like me. She also prefers to have few but close friends instead of a solid quantity of friends. Im not used to dating girls like her but I thought she was really cute and wanted to give it a shot. So far the only real conversations we've had, was after class when I walked to her car. But those conversations were only 5-10 minutes and I kinda had to try to get her out of her comfort zone. We're getting lunch in a few day... Any tips?
How do I talk to a shy/introverted girl?
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Instead of doing all the talking, get her to talk, about her points of interest and worries etc.1
Definitely try and get her to do the talking. Once she gets into the rhythm, she won't shut up, lol. My ex was SUPER shy. I had to ask many questions to get her to start talking. Smiling also makes girls feel at ease around you. Smile and be enthusiastic. That's what worked for me.1
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