So I invited this guy I had hung out with twice at the bar only talking and drinking. I invite him over to get away from my obnoxious friend that disrespected. So we hung out and he sat in my hammock with me and met my chickens and talked about family and he complimented me on how I keep up my yard well by myself and how I need to buy my house cause it is perfect. He told me to sit back and he ran around my house getting things ready he found his way around the kitchen and my room and got my window AC set up with an extension cord. He was like let me handle everything. I was impressed. And it led to us hooking up but I told him he could crash where ever he wanted the couch or the other room. He chose to sleep with me. And it was beautiful!!! I felt adored. he was like I am in no hurry to leave in the morning. Long kiss goodbye. He said "everything was just awesome". He says since we were up all night he was going to sleep and recover and I will hear from him. Then he was gone. Nothing for like a week I was sad. I intentionally did not ask his number I wanted it to be up to him. Then he calls and says he needs to explain that he is not ready for a relationship. He is saying I am awesome and I deserve it but he is just not ready. He says if we meet up I need to know it is just a friends with benefits type thing because he has to work on himself. I tell him it is ok but I was happy to hear from him he is like are you sure u can do this I can't huRt u. I say it's fine he came over and again it was amazing. And he saw me at the club the other day and called me over to meet his friends he had me do my comedy with them he has me meet his best friend specifically. Then jerk friend sees us kissing and touches my ass. My guy holds my hands and pulls me close to his chest and gets into a verbal altercation with his dumb friend. I felt in awe of his protection. He was like she is a lady and you don't do that to her ever. He tells me to head home and he will meet up with me.
- Can earth shattering sex move a guy from friends with benefits to wanting a relationship?Vote A
- YesVote B
- NoVote C
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It sounds like he legitimately isn't interested in dating you right now, but probably will be in the future. I'd say stay close to him, and give him around 3-6 months, then move on, but don't expect you to be exclusive for those 3-6 months, and don't get jealous if he sleeps with other girls, cause he'll probably just cut you off if you do.3