Ok look I've been out of the dating scene for a while now but I've recently decided to get back in it, now im 38 never married no kids i had bad self image problems but kept them to myself, i have a ton of confidense and have no problem approaching women and striking up a conversation now i understand i dont look like channing tatum or ryan gosling and i sure dont have their bank accounts lol but how can i get a woman to give me a chance to show her im a great guy when it seems like every woman has heard it all before?
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Curious what you mean by "heard it all before"? We've heard a lot of lame lines, but it never gets boring to have a guy honestly strike up a conversation about a shared interest. Online you can read a profile and have an idea what to comment on to get the conversation going; out in the world, if you meet on a hike you know you're both into hiking; etc. etc. Honesty and a little vulnerability are always welcome. And don't think we didn't give you a chance just because we don't agree to go out with you - maybe we found out all we need to know in that first two minute exchange, and having dinner with you would be a waste of your time, just as you (I assume) meet women for whom you immediately know there is no chemistry. I think the biggest thing is to just get out of the house and be in the world where you can meet new people.0