From the start he's always told me he's single. He would take me out 3 times a week, wanted to meet my parents, and be with me at night on weekends sometimes just watching tv at home or partied with me one time, was always a gentlemen like opening the car door for me. I found out he had a girlfriend the whole time we were talking. I was shocked because he didn't seem like that kind of guy. But why would he do that when he already has someone that he could be doing that to? I want a good reason please.
Most Helpful Guy
It's very hard to know why or how this happened. I think though you need to realize the most likely explanation is that he's an asshole.
It is possible that he was stuck in some other relationship he didn't care about and couldn't end. Many guys are bad at getting out of relationships they don't want. But for 3 years? The girl probably would have left herself.
No, much more likely this guy is egocentric and selfish. He enjoys stringing people along; he enjoys having "options" and he probably enjoys being unfaithful. I'm not saying dump him immediately, but you should definitely have that be option number one. If you want to give him a chance to explain himself ask him to a one-on-one meeting where you demand the whole truth. Just be aware you might be inviting a con artist to a challenge: con me again. Be careful how you proceed.1
Most Helpful Girl
Some people are jerks who do jerky things. Neither of us are cheaters so maybe we'll never understand :/0