I've never openely spoken about my anxiety with my boyfriend, but it's very much alive and there. I am constantly paranoid that he doesn't care about me, that something is bound to go wrong, when I know in fact that he does love me and care about me just as I do him. He is a great person who does everything he can to make me happy, but I can't shrug off the feeling of paranoia that I'm a terrible girlfriend/something is going to happen that's going to tear us apart/etc, should I talk to him about it or keep it to myself?
Most Helpful Guy
If you get too anxious, it might cost you the relationship you were afraid of losing in the first place. If you tell yourself that you are going to lose it one day anyway, you may feel less anxious and may actually make your relationship last longer...0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm actually going through the exact same thing right now in my relationship. I'm paranoid he's not that into me, when my friend told me that guys need space. Every relationship involves a risk but trust that your boyfriend loves you, maybe you should talk to him about it so he can give you reassurance.0