I'm half black and my girlfriend is Latino. She told me her parents do not like blacks which I don't understand. She claims not to be racist but I'm the first black person she dated.
It's been 9 months now and I'm hearing things come out of her. She complains blacks are lazy, she told me she doesn't want her daughters dating a black... And we were at a stop light and there was a poor black asking for change and her daughter yelled yikes a black guy roll up your windows...
So I called my girlfriend out I said it seems like your racist also like your parents and she replied I'm not racist I just don't care for black people... I replied that is racist. So we r going back n forth I told her that's hate bc she judge by the color of someone's skin that's racist.
Does anyone agree with me? I. Feel weird bc my dad is black and he has a family. She just says well she isn't dating my dad etc.
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From being apart of the Latin community, I can assure you that there are many Latinos and Hispanics who are racist. Basically, they tend to forget that the only reason they have more European features is due to brutal Spanish colonization. The only difference between us Latinos and Blacks is pretty much a boat stop. It’s actually quite crazy. I am Brazilian and I have heard similar comments made by my people. Latinos tend to be so mixed that they forget they are minorities who have also been shitted all over, screwed all over, and are still affected by race in this world. Smdh, it’s really quite stupid to be honest.
Your girlfriend is racist and it seems quite apparent that she was taught from her family. There are a lot of racist chicks who love dating black guys. The second you piss them off they may call you the n word or in the least think it and start stereotyping you. This relationship sounds really unhealthy and if you two were to have children, she would tarnish their self-esteem with her instinctively ignorant habits and mentality. Find another girl who’s more respectful, courteous, considerate, and racially evolved than this chick.0
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