If you were to contact an ex after not speaking for months what would be YOUR reason?
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depends upon the maturity level of the guy. Many times if a guy is lonely and knows an ex might be available, he gives it a try. sometimes is is about sex (for younger men - often). For more mature men, if they realized that what he had was better then he realized, he may try to contact an ex. If the man is mature, he will simply askher how she is doing and if she would like to get together for something safe (dinner, etc.) to catch up. If a spark remains, they both might find out. If an ex has contacted you, I would then ask, why are you wondering this? Are you thinking of seeing him? I would then say decide why and, if you think it is worth getting together, take it slow. Now for older men like myself, I keep in touch with many of my exes as friends. My wife does not mind because she knows they are friends. If, even for a second, one of the exes decided to see if there was more than friendship, I would back off. Of course, older men and women can handle friendships with exes, but for some, it can be dangerous.1