I've been together with my boyfriend for just over a year now... he's beautiful inside and out, and everytime I see him I get butterflies in my stomach... its not just me as the girl fantasizing about a life with him, but he sees it too... were both 15... we were best friends that became something a lot more... he loves me and I love him, there's no denying that... I just dont understand why people think that all teenagers have stupid puppy love... I hate stereotypes, and thats the only thing people judge me and him and us by... I love him... and im ready for any single thing that comes in our way... but why is this such a problem for people to understand?
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well the problem is not other your age but life itself. Once you're old enough to go to college or get a job life changes a lot. People move to new cities , gets a job with working hours that make it hard to have a relationship , both of you will meet new and probably more attractive people , you got to pay bills (probably the hardest part) etc etc
This makes it hard to have a relationship like you have now. Right now your parents pay for everything buy you everything. Plus you're in highschool you basically hangout with the same crowd. You don't have any of the "real world" problems. Once you get to the world things get a little bit more complicated.
AS much as your hormones say nothing is impossible as long as you two are together... the facts say other wise. There is a very low chance of highschool relationships lasting after highschool.
But this is just concerning america and some countries in the west. If you are from the east having a highschool relationship even after highschool is quite possible. Due to culture and different ways of living people , people tend to stay together longer (unless you're in japan)
Plus if you partner isn't overly independent about himself your relationship has a good chance of lasting longer...
but if the relationship makes you happy PLEASE GO AHEAD , don't think about the future..
Just don't get pregnant in highschool haha1
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