I'm black but I've always liked other races even when I was 3 I had a boyfriend who was white and so have my other few. I don't know how to feel about it because I feel bad because I don't find the guys my friends attractive well attractive but then again I can't help who I like. I just want to know from someone else's POV if that is racist or not. And no I don't think black guys are ugly or do I trash talk them I just tend to like other races.
Another question is I'm from the south so people talk trash about interacial relationships (its ridiculous I know) and I'm in high school so there are A LOT of shallow guys who laugh at the thought of dating a black girl. Are there many guys who aren't as shallow as they are in high school or do I have to deal with this until college?
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High School is a horrible place. I am Caucasian and I am attracted females of every race. I live in the north, and there were a few times where someone got made fun of for an inter-racial relationship. I was also made fun of once for talking to a girl who was black and almost ending up in a relationship by one person.
I would say wait until you are out of there to start dating, but don't pass up an opportunity before then. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being attracted to another human being, regardless of how they look. The society we live in is so messed up right now, but you need to do what will make you happy!1