I just started a courtship for the first time with a nice, quiet guy who I've known for 4 years from youth group. We both decided not to kiss or be intimate with eachother until marriage (if we do get married). For you guys, is it hard to not be physical except for sitting next to eachother and holding hands? Do you think it's a struggle for him to keep hands off?
Most Helpful Guy
I think that zero intimacy is a unrealistic joke. Now, I do have moral values and believe that sex should be save for after marriage. But I do not believe that you can go until marriage without at least kissing or hugging closely. People need to explore each others personalities, their compatibility, and their chemistry. What happens when you get married and realize he's terrible to kiss and if physically puts you off on how he kisses? How does he taste? Does he smell good or bad? How does his body react to yours when you to are holding each other? These questions are really important to ask yourself before you consider marrying someone. That's one of the many aspects of dating, is to find out who you are dating.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I think that's enough.0