It seems to be a pattern in dating that I've encountered.
Either men are super beta and can't even ask me out, and hid behind their cellphones for months on end and when you bring up dating, they feel like you've asked about marriage and leave you in the dust!
Or, the guy is a super alpha and is the douchey-ish jerk on the block. He chases women and drops them like hot potatoes the instant she might show she likes him too because it's all about the chase for them, not the woman.
Why he in the hell is it so hard to find a man that wants to work toward a relationship, be vulnerable, be consistent, and actually appreciates when a woman makes a move and shows she cares?
Most Helpful Guy
Alpha and beta...
Agression and tenderness
You need to find a man with that balance... Whos assertive and agressive also tender and caring etc
Look at all the men you've spoken too... Alls you need to do is a find the 'middle man'
Then BOOM!!! You're knickers will drop and you'll form a relationship and you're knickers will keep droping3
Most Helpful Girl
The only common denominator here is you.. you need to figure out why those are the only guys you are attracting / find yourself attracted to.
Honestly, I don't think that most men meet either of those descriptions... they usually fall somewhere in between.3