My boyfriend of two months invited me to go boating with his friends the upcoming weekend. Then the day of left my house while I was still in bed to, "let me sleep" as if we never had plans. This was the first time I'd be meeting his friends so I was so upset but either way it is not acceptable to make plans with someone then bail on them as if he had never invited me.
I'm always told it isn't a good sign when you still haven't met your man's friends so this really just added to my hurt and I concluded that I wasn't going to see him anymore.
I texted him to have fun at the lake (so he would know I didn't forget about our plans). He told me sorry they ran out of seats but there will be another boat party. I told him I'm sure there would be but I wouldn't be on it. He didn't seem to realize there was a problem until he picked up his truck from my place and saw I put all of his things in it.
He apologized, said he thought they were only tentative plans but that he definitely made the wrong call and will never leave me out like that again. I can meet his friends later this week. He said he isn't hiding me, they all know about me and have seen my pictures, he didn't think I was interested in going on the boat since I hadn't asked about it since him having mentioned it.
He hasn't really had any longterm relationships and has made a few other stumbles since we've been together so I'm not sure if I should give him the benefit of the doubt and let him make it up or stick to my guns and walk. He does really seem to like me and we spend a lot of time together other than this...
Guys/ girls is this forgiveable behavior assuming it never happens again? He didn't lie that is the only thing I can see on his side.
- Give him another chanceVote A
- Ditch his assVote B
- otherVote C
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... His girl 'Friend' that lives down the street from me was on the boat...
Bottom line is, I see the writing on the wall and all and if you miss 'The boat' yourself her, dear, then this will just Anchor on your mind.
I find it strange that She was There and you are the One Writing and wooing to us on GAG With... My boyfriend ditched me?
He is making lame duck excuses and with some history of things with you having Not 'Met your man's friends' after a Month of Mondays, is telling me that without it being etched in stone, he is Not Ready to Explain you 'That day,' and who knows, if they really know Everything or Anything about you... Totally.
Wake up here, dear. You said there are Other things that don't smell right in Denmark and this is One more topping to the cake that leaves a sour ball in my mouth... It seems he may want his cake and eat it Two with you and his side dishes of doing what he wishes and with This, I don't mean in Cheating but 'Cheating' you out of a healthy relationship.
Have a pet talk with him, he is again in the dog house. And by putting your relationship on a short leash, he is barking up the wrong tree.
Also while you have him at your clutches, dig a bit deeper into his 'relationship' with this pretty Pup who ended Up... Sitting in your seat on the Good ship lollipop.
If you feel he is a waste of time and may not be ready for 'Longterm relationships,' then cut him free and sail on out. He doesn't really want to be hooked at the hip and from my own seat which isn't on the poop deck, he doesn't want to be 'totally' hooked at the hip like an anchor with a ship mate right now.
Good luck. xx0
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