After a pretty good first date to the movies, we try to plan a second date. So a week or so later we plan to go out to dinner but the day of the date he says he's working late and can't make it. Then during the weekend he asks if I want to meet up for dinner the day of but I'm like 'no, I already have plans, please make plans with me a few days in advanced so i can make sure im free'. We reschedule for next week same day and the day of he's not responding to my texts about confirming its still on (I sent 2). Finally a few hours before the date I sent him a third text saying I am assuming its not still on since he didn't confirm with me and then he says he's sick and can't make it. Seems lame. Should I give him one more shot or drop him?
- Drop himVote A
- Give him a final chanceVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I promise, if a guy is into you, he will call off work, ditch his friends, leave his grandmother funeral (maybe after the main ceremony is over), or take a ton of drugs to get over being sick just to make it there to see the girl they're lucky enough to go out with. And if you aren't convinced, let me assure you, a date to the movies is not a date. It's an environment where he doesn't have to talk to you, so to me not really a date. And now he bailed on you twice. You really are a nice person, because I suspect I lose any chance with a girl if I miss even one date at the beginning. Drop him, but don't feel too bad about it.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Drop him now.1