I'm 25 and work with a guy who is 24 (whom I have a crush on). He knows that I don't drink. My other co-workers have spent the summer trying to talk me into going to the bar, which I refuse to do.
The other day, the guy asked me if I'd go to a certain bar with him some time and said "It'd be super casual, not a date or anything. You could have a Coke and we'd play pool." I declined because I refuse to go to the bar.
Now my friends are all saying that I blew it and that he was most definitely asking me on a date because he said that it wouldn't be a date.
So, my question is... Was he asking me on a date? If so, why did he bother saying that it wouldn't be a date?
Most Helpful Guy
The main concern here is why is all your co-workers okay with shitting where they eat?0
Most Helpful Girl
honestly nowadays it's so hard to tell so i understand why you're wondering. if it's just u and him and it feels like a date and he starts flirting a lot than yes it's a date0